Carving is the act of using tools to shape something from a material by scraping away portions of that material. The technique can be applied to any material that is solid enough to hold a form even when pieces have been removed from it, and yet soft enough for portions to be scraped away with available tools. – Wikipedia.
Carving is different from molding. God molded the woman, but the man is expected to carve a wife out of the woman God molded. It is for this particular reason that Bible says that wives should submit to their husbands as unto the Lord.
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
The word Submit implies to yield, to give way or allow. When a material gives way for you to alter it’s state and appearance, it has submitted to your way. So the bible says wives should give way to their husbands they would give to the Lord. How a wife will permit the Lord to have his way in her life should be the same way she will allow her husband to have his way (nevertheless, I do not advocate dictatorship or unwholesome control or puppeting). Jesus doesn’t enforce his will on us, he discusses with us and works on us when we allow. This brings us to the Wikipedia explanation of carving.
There are various materials that can be carved, each of them also require a different kind of tool and skill. What that means is that, there are different kinds of women and each of the kinds demand a different kind of man and method to carve them into wives.
Wikipedia said about carving, “The technique can be applied to any material that is solid enough to hold a form even when pieces have been removed from it, and yet soft enough for portions to be scraped away with available tools.”
A woman is the material. Carving can only work on women who are solid enough to maintain who they are but without certain portions of their life that is not needed. Also, the woman that can undergo carving is the one that can be soft enough for unwanted portions to be taken out of their life.
Many women in this era are not materials like the ones that existed formerly. Most of them can’t hold a form when carving is taken place. Some can scream in an outburst, “that is how I am, if you don’t like it go!”. The crisis generated in the generation is unsuccessful relationships and marriages.
Before everything evolves, we must understand that the scripture for our time which is the New Testament hasn’t evolved and won’t. The bible said wives must “give way” to their husbands as they will give to the Lord. You cannot carve a woman who isn’t ready to soft for portions to be taken of her life.
Whatever the case is, there is always going to be some things that someone must forfeit, whether Man or woman, before two people can abide together. The pain of loosing the partner should be more than that of loosing the unwanted portions in your life.
Most Ladies that became very great in our world, they became because their husbands made them! A good Lady must permit necessary carving.
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